言不褻不笑 : 近代中國男性世界中的諧謔、情慾與身體-黃克武 _聯經2016/Yan bu xie bu xiao : jin dai zhong guo nan xing shi jie zhong de xie xue qing yun yu shen ti.

It ain’t over till it’s over. End relationships that no longer work for you, as you could be spending time in a dead end. Rather head for more meaningful things. You could be missing opportunities while you’re stuck in a meaningless rut, trying to breathe life into something that is long gone.